V- Vibes
Have you ever met someone who immediately gives off good vibes? I don't mean the "life of the party" type but the ones who brighten up a room when they walk in. These people are usually unforgettable, like a best friend, a favorite aunt or uncle, favorite teacher. They are easy to talk to, are complimentary, kind, and positive. Recently my sister asked me who this person is to me, and I have to say that I have quite a few of these fantastic people in my life.
One of the qualities is that they leave others feeling better about themselves. I love the idea that one is remembered for helping those they come in contact with to feel good about who they are, which implies that these good vibes are observing and noticing others. This is not a self-absorbed person. I've told my boys many times that a good friend (and more importantly a good mate) makes you feel good about who you are and they don't try to change you. I hope that I am remembered this way.
One of the qualities is that they leave others feeling better about themselves. I love the idea that one is remembered for helping those they come in contact with to feel good about who they are, which implies that these good vibes are observing and noticing others. This is not a self-absorbed person. I've told my boys many times that a good friend (and more importantly a good mate) makes you feel good about who you are and they don't try to change you. I hope that I am remembered this way.
As Ive thought about this I realized that in order to be remembered this way I must behave this way. Take the time to notice others, to compliment people, to smile and say hello; show sympathy and be empathetic. In other words, don't just light up a room, be the light!
Light is the absence of darkness. It's not about being a spotlight, or even a flashlight in someone's face. One little candle can light a room enough to see things so we don't trip. So it's really about helping our friends and family from getting hurt in the darkness, to keep them from tripping. I definitely want to be the friend who lights the way or leaves my friends feeling better after being with me. And I want them to feel good about who they are, not who I think they should be- especially my kids.
So what do you say? Let's leave good vibes where ever we go and with whomever we meet.
The lesson: Be the light.
Pouring hope,
Nen♡
“You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do they light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven."
Matt. 5:14-16
Some people really do just exude good vibes. @samanthabwriter from
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